Tag: happiness

All I want is Time

Yesterday I got hit whit someone in pain that left me a list of complains she had about another person. It literally took 15 mins or so for me to listen to this person without interruption.  After actively listening to this person for straight 15 minutes all it took me to ask was this question,  what is it that you want out of this person? The answer which I already knew was, TIME. I want this person to give me TIME. There was silence. When problems arise, resilient people determine what is within their control to fix and go about their business.  In a world sometimes filled with negativity and complaining, it can be tempting at times to complain for the sake of complaining.  Instead use your complaints about your life as an opportunity to improve your life. “What could be done about it?” What request or change could I make to eliminate this complaint from my life? I have found that complaining without taking action to do something about it is very disempowering- not to mention unproductive.  When you stop having problems and start solving them , your life becomes more productive,  joyful and powerful.  We spent sometimes focusing on how to make that request of time more effective without complaining. 

**Complaints often indicate that an expectation or need is not being met.**

Have you been cleared about your expectations? Have you voiced your dissatisfaction and requested a specific change or solution? Until you do, you may find yourself stuck with the same complaints indefinitely.

God Bless,

Jani

Let Your Why Direct Your What

Success comes from knowing your purpose in life, growing to your maximum potential and sowing seeds to benefits others.

It will be very hard for you to grow to your potential if you do not know your purpose.

Once you understand your purpose, you need to prioritize your life according to that purpose. If you don’t, you’ll continually get off track and you may never feel a real sense of fulfillment and completion.

God Bless,

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach, Speaker and Trainer

Self Worth

Your Self-image is the biggest determining factor in your success.

I will forever be thankful for my mom who early in age implanted positive thoughts in me. I was a very shy individual and my self-esteem wasn’t the best growing up. I was involved in church activities, theater and dancing activities, I went to modeling school and I was very active in sports. All of those extra curriculum activities helped me be the person I am today.

When you were younger or recently can you think of a time that how you thought about yourself impacted the results you got?

Maybe your mindset when selling something or fundraising as a
kid or performing in sports or music and how it gave you either
a positive or negative result.

It is so important to have a healthy image and if you have kids i encourage you to help them with that.

Healthy self-image:
– thinking positive thoughts about yourself – be open to learn
Vs
Unhealthy self-image – thinking negative thoughts about yourself
– no energy even to try, don’t believe it is worth it.

Always focus on the strengths instead to automatically go to your weaknesses.

Remember the price tag we place on ourself is the price tag others place on us.

Self worth is a choice!

Janitza Rivera
Certified John Maxwell Youth Facilitator

Kkoaching Business And Leadership

We all have that one friend who seems to have it all together. That woman with the seemingly perfect life. Well, you might be that woman to someone else.

God Bless you 🙏

Janitza Rivera, Executive Coach, Speaker and Trainer

The First Person You Must Lead Is You

This book is about leadership. I heard about the author Rebecca Halstead on an interview she was having at Steven Shallenberge’s podcast about leadership and she talked about her book and I seriously didn’t think it would be as good as it is.

You would think when you have a child, take classes and take care of everything else in life you don’t have time to be reading but the truth of the matter is that you have to make time. I love this book and I want to share few things about leadership.

You have one person to lead- that person is YOU.

If you want to change yourself, your family, your community and your work place you need to start drawing a mental circle. If you want change, you need to start inside your personal circle.

In other words the first person you should lead is you.

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

I will never ask someone to do something I was not willing to do myself.

I had to talk the talk and walk the walk.

Leadership is your choice. Character is who you are when no one is watching.

Are leaders born or made? What do you think? Take some time to think about this. What skills and traits, values and behaviors make up your leadership chemistry?

You must identify your strengths and manage your weaknesses. This is the second time I see this. Remember that no one is ever too old or important to stop learning.

The day you stop learning is the day you stop leading, for that matter is the day you stop really living.

I hope this gives you a little synopsis about what the book is all about. I recommend you to read it. Once I’m done I will write more about leadership and why you are the first person you need to lead.

God bless,

Jani

My First 3 Months

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Little girls bring lots of love,

Janitza

You must be very Happy Now your little girl is here- And may the joy you’re sharing keep increasing year by year! Mark & Patti

Janitza,

Good luck with your baby, I know you can hardly wait! Your friends, Cathy and Lynwood

Janitza, Let’s stick together

I admire the strength you’ve shown since returning to work. I am so glad you are in the “Mommy club” now and we can share even more now. There will be days when you feel like you are not enough and question if you are making the right decision for your family. May this book brighten your days like that and know YOU are Enough! Always here if you need anything, Samantha

 

Your baby girl is blessed to be born into a family where love is a way of life. Anyone who knows you knows that you have all the warmth, love, strength, and gentleness you’ll need to give this precious little girl a happy start in life, Congratulations, Smiles For Life

Your Sweet little girl from God,

Hope you feel blessed kissing little cheeks, still rosy from angel kisses, holding little hands, still keeping time to celestial choirs, gazing lovingly into little eyes, just as bright as the starry skies of heaven! Wishing you and you baby Every Happiness, Congratulations, Nicole

Janitza,

This baby gift was chosen with a lot of love and care, wrapped and tied with a wish inside and happy thoughts to spare. Wishing you happiness always. So excited for you. You’ll make a terrific MOM. Delores

Congrats to one Foxy Mama,

I just want to offer you congratulations and let you know how excited I am for you! You are going to make the best mom and I am so thrilled for you in this next chapter. All the best to you and your growing family xoxo, Kelsey

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Ese Angel

Refiere una Antigua leyenda que un nino proximo a nacer, le dijo a Dios.

Me vas a enviar manana a la tierra, pero Como vivire alla? siendo tan pequeno y tan debil? Entre los muchos angeles escogi a uno que te espera contesto Dios.

Pero aqui en el cielo no hago mas que cantar y sonreir y eso basta para mi felicidad, poder hacerlo alla?

Ese angel te hablara y te ensenaras las palabras mas dulces y mas tiernas que escuchan los humanos.

Que hare cuando quiera hablar contigo? Ese angel juntara tus pequenas manos y te ensenara a orar.

He oido que en la tierra hay hombres malos, quien me defendera? Ese angel te defendera aunque le cueste la vida..

Pero estare siempre triste por que no te vere mas Senor.

Ese angel te hablara de mi y te mostrara el camino para volver a mi presencia. Le dijo Dios. En ese instante, una paz inmensa reinaba en el cielo . No se oian voces terrestres. El nino decia suavemente:

Dime su nombre Senor.

Ese Angel se llama Mama!

Lula

Her first 3 month on this earth has been amazing and I can hardly wait to see what’s coming in the next 3 months.

God Bless,

Janitza