Deja que comienze el llanto

Hay muchas personas que no lidian con su dolor de la manera correcta. Lo encierra y tratan de ser fuertes por amor a los otros, pensando que no les está permitido estar tristes o que no tienen tiempo para salir de la rutina para lidiar con su dolor como es debido. Pero puedo decirte con toda confianza, que incluzo hay personas que dependen de ti, incluso cuando la vida tiene que continuar y tu tienes que seguir adelante, tiene que haber un momento para lidiar con el dolor.
Ruegale a Dios que te ayude con tu dolor. Él es muy bueno consolandote y restaurandote la esperanza mientras oras. Antes de que te des cuenta, otra vez estaras siguiendo con tu vida e incluso, disfrutandola. Vas a encontrar tu ritmo y abrazaras la vida que habias conocido.

Una de las cosas que aprendí acerca del dolor es que uno no pierde la persona, o el sueńo, o cualquier cosa que haya perdido todo en un dia. Uno lo pierde a él,o a ella, o eso gradualmente, a medida que la vida continua. Cuando uno ve algo que le recuerda aquello que perdió, siente dolor. Cuando uno ve algo que trae recuerdos a su mente, siente dolor. Es por eso que el primer ańo después de una perdida es tan difícil: la primera Navidad, el primer cumpleańos, el primer aniversario, el primer concurso…muchos primeros que no se parecen a lo que eran.

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

My Daughter, My Inspiration

I don’t know why I introduced Alexa to Keyani.  All she wants to do is to talk to her and sometimes they get into arguments. However I do enjoy listening the back and forth conversations. Sometimes I’m glad she is around and sometimes I feel I want to return her. (Not my child, Alexa)haha!
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I remember the times when my little precious gift was all a cloud in my head. So little, didn’t know how to hold her, I was so afraid of her choking on her food, I was super afraid I would roll over her in bed when she was next to me. Anyway is was an adventure that I know you lived if you have kids.

Sometimes as parents we feel paralyzed for a lack of better word.  Parenting can be very challenging, but I want you to realize how blessed you are.

As a parent my role as well as your role will never end until you are six feet under. If you do parenting right, the memories,  experiences and seeds of wisdom that you deposit in your child will last throughout your lifetime,  and for many generations after.

That is the legacy you want to leave to your child and their children’s children.  If the legacy is going to happen, we as parents must rise up and begin to take back our children and families.

Keyani was my inspiration to become a Family and Parenting Coach. I am on a mission to have a better life for my daughter and children in this world.  I’m all about providing tools, techniques and tips on how to effectively lead, guide, direct and train my child and your children in a way where they are able to reach their full potential.  I have the best parenting coach there is that helped me get certified. She helped me be where I wanted to be as soon as I found out I was pregnant. She was my GPS and I am greatly blessed. ❤

Cuanto Tiempo

Si tan sólo supieran cuánto tiempo, esfuerzo, miedo y lágrimas me costó volver a reconstruirme, entonces entenderían porque ahora tengo mayor cuidado al elegir quien entra en mi vida y quien no. Hay personas que no les importa destrozarnos el alma, por ello debemos cuidarnos.

Kkoaching Business And Leadership

You are never to late to change your future.

Nunca estas tarde para;

1. Cambiar de carrera

2. Regresar a estudiar

3. Enamorarte

4. Disculparte con alguien que heristes.

5. Perdonar a alguien que te hirio

6. Planear un viaje a un lugar que siempre haz soñado

7. Tener hijos (adoptar)

8. Empezar a ahorrar para tu Retiro

9. Empezar a cuidarte mejor

10. Darle la vuelta a tus finanzas

11. Profundizar tu relación con Dios

12. Cambiar tu actitud o tu perspectiva en la vida

13. Ponerte en forma.

God bless,

Janitza Rivera

Kkoaching Business And Leadership

Give thanks, extremely important.  One of the things I do as soon as I wake up.  But today I give more thanks because 4 days ago I realized how blessed I am.  This week appreciation for me was said out loud, in front of many people.  My duty always in life has been to be able to return that gratitude to others.  Many people think that there are no good people and the truth is that there are.  There are many beautiful, friendly and ready people to help you.  The other days I thought, wow He waited almost 3 months for me.  3 months later he sees the fruits of that decision.  In life there are times when you have to wait for the good, for the fruits that you sow.  If someone waits for me professionally, I can wait for you.  Be patient.  Wait for the good, sometimes it takes time, but when it comes, it comes at the right time.  So thank you.  That is why I am always grateful.  That is why I am always willing to be that person that you are waiting to come into your life.  Take the opportunities.
  HUGs,
  JANITZA
EXECUTIVE BUSINESS COACH, SPEAKER AND TRAINER at KKoaching Business and Leadership