I don’t know why I introduced Alexa to Keyani. All she wants to do is to talk to her and sometimes they get into arguments. However I do enjoy listening the back and forth conversations. Sometimes I’m glad she is around and sometimes I feel I want to return her. (Not my child, Alexa)haha!
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I remember the times when my little precious gift was all a cloud in my head. So little, didn’t know how to hold her, I was so afraid of her choking on her food, I was super afraid I would roll over her in bed when she was next to me. Anyway is was an adventure that I know you lived if you have kids.
Sometimes as parents we feel paralyzed for a lack of better word. Parenting can be very challenging, but I want you to realize how blessed you are.
As a parent my role as well as your role will never end until you are six feet under. If you do parenting right, the memories, experiences and seeds of wisdom that you deposit in your child will last throughout your lifetime, and for many generations after.
That is the legacy you want to leave to your child and their children’s children. If the legacy is going to happen, we as parents must rise up and begin to take back our children and families.
Keyani was my inspiration to become a Family and Parenting Coach. I am on a mission to have a better life for my daughter and children in this world. I’m all about providing tools, techniques and tips on how to effectively lead, guide, direct and train my child and your children in a way where they are able to reach their full potential. I have the best parenting coach there is that helped me get certified. She helped me be where I wanted to be as soon as I found out I was pregnant. She was my GPS and I am greatly blessed. ❤
Your undivided attention makes communication easier.
Warmth, trust, power, and passion cannot happen without presence.
Your spirit can’t fake passion. Your voice and body will alert the world.
To be compassionate, be present. Be with the person you are talking to, not just physically but mindfully.
Compassion says “I care.”
When you are not fully present, even if you try your best to pretend you are, it shows. There is really no way to hide it. When your mind is elsewhere and you are mulling over your to do list while feigning attentiveness to the person who is speaking to you, your facial expressions will be slightly delayed. Even though you are looking directly into the eyes of the other person, your eyes might even glaze over.
*If you want to be effective in your communication, be the person who is present*
Janitza Rivera
Executive Business Coach
This was the best advise I have received in my life when you have to determine if it is time to stay or move on.
This is a decision you have to make after you meet with your leader. Will you stay or will you go? May be your leader says he will change. If that turns out to be true, great. May be he says he will not change. Are you willing to live with that? May be the conversation you had with your leader did greater damage to the relationship. As someone once said: “Relationships are like glass. Sometimes is better to leave them broken than to hurt yourself trying to put them back together.” In the end you may not be able to change the people around you, but you can change the people you choose to be around.
If you are still having a hard time trying to decide whether to stay or go, ask yourself this question: If I weren’t already working here, knowing what I know now, would I want to become part of this organization? If the answer is no, it’s time to go. If the answers is “I don’t know” ask yourself again in six months. If the answer is yes, stay and learn how to work with your leader.
Janitza Rivera
Executive Business Coach
Kkoachingbusiness@gmail.com
This little girl has taught me in two years what college did not teach me in four. I feel like it has been two years of lots of learning, lots of love and lots of understanding. I never thought a little person can show you to pay attention right now to what is happening because you have been given the opportunity to change, to do something different than how you typically do it.
This little girl can show you what you’re passionate about, where your boundaries are and what you believe need to change about the world.
A little girl like Keyani can help you understand the person you do not want to be and help you understand that you have the opportunity to forgive yourself in order to move on. There is so much to learn from a little person like her. Just be present 100% every single time you have the opportunity to be with your children, your loved ones, whomever it is you are giving your time to and if you are not able to do so, do not compromise.
There is always a lesson. There is always an opportunity, there is always HOPE, but most of all there is always LOVE.
God Bless,
Janitza
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