Una persona feliz no es una persona con cierta serie de circunstancias, sino una persona con cierta serie de actitudes”. — Hugh Downs Los psicólogos han descubierto que cuando las personas son consideradas para una promoción, los ejecutivos observan lo siguiente sobre la persona: 1.. AMBICIÓN 2.. DESTREZAS 3.. ACTITUD hacia la compañía 4.. ACTITUD hacia las personas ACTITUD hacia la demanda excesiva de tiempo y energía El Liderazgo tiene que ver menos con la posición que con la disposición.
Influence is a choice. Influence is like a candle. When lit, it makes everything brighter and better. Unlit, nothing positive happens. Who lit their candle for you?🧨 Light your candle and make things better for others.🌜🌝🌛☀️🌞
You light your candle when you care for others. “Let no one come to you without leaving better and happier.”😊🥰😇
You light your candle when you help others.👨👩👧🫂👩👧👨👧 Your Influence will be a plus or a minus in the lives of others. 🗣Say something positive to a person the first thirty seconds you are with them.
😚😉😊Compliment people in front of others. Everyone likes a compliment.
🤝🏨⏳ Be the first to help. The first person to offer a helping hand is always remembered.
↔️📋✏Encouragement is oxygen for the soul. Everyone does better when encouraged.
Take care of your money. Greater financial abundance is on its way to you, but to receive more you must become a better steward over what you already have. Today create or rework your budget. Reduce unnecessary spending. Clean up any money leaks. Your dreams will require you to invest, so building extra savings is a must. Set a new routine of looking at your money goals and spending habits every day for at least ten to fifteen minutes. If you wanted a garden to grow , you wouldn’t tend it every once in a while and just hope and pray that it bears great fruit. You have to cultivate it, consistently. Remember, whatever you give energy to will thrive and expand. More positive attention and intention on your money equals greater financial wealth and abundance. Take some time today to rework your budget and create a new financial plan for your life.
Cuida tu dinero. Una mayor abundancia financiera está en camino hacia ti, pero para recibir más debes convertirte en un mejor administrador de lo que ya tienes. Hoy crea o reelabora tu presupuesto. Reduce gastos innecesarios. Limpia cualquier fuga de dinero. Tus sueños requerirán que inviertas, por lo que es imprescindible generar ahorros adicionales. Estableze una nueva rutina para observar tus metas de dinero y tus hábitos de gasto todos los días durante al menos diez o quince minutos. Si quisieras que creciera un jardín, no lo cuidaría de vez en cuando y solo esperaría y rezarías para que dé buenos frutos. Tienes que cultivarlo, consistentemente. Recuerda, cualquier cosa a la que le des energía prosperará y se expandirá. Una atención e intención más positivas en tu dinero equivale a una mayor riqueza y abundancia financiera.
Tómate un tiempo hoy para reelaborar tu presupuesto y crea un nuevo plan financiero para tu vida. ♡
I have been reading this emails recently from Jeff Henderson, he is the author of What to do Next, an excellent book you should read. I’m going to share with you some information on what to do in your forties just because it applies to me as well, but I will be sharing with you what to do in your 20s and 30s and 50s in the next few days.
If you are in this season of your life here is what you should do in your 40s:
Provide an Annual Financial Report for your family. This include an update on any investments, account numbers and passwords, who to contact and suggestions on what to do with each investment. “A wise an loving husband prepares his wife to be a widow.” This may sound depressing but it is very wise.
Continue to think of yourself as an athlete, and keep training. Most people who played sports stopped seeing themselves as athletes when their athletic career stopped. We still in the most important game of all- the game of life. Keep training. This not only impacts you physically, it benefits you mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
Read the book of proverbs. Regardless about what you think of the Bible. Proverbs is a treasure trove of wisdom. There is priceless guidance there for you to use for your second half of life.
Read more. Watch less.
Review your insurance policy annually
Leave a paper trail . Write one handwritten note a week to each member of your family, thanking and encouraging them for being in your life.
Colonoscopy. This and other assessments annually.
Consider a side hustle. This isn’t for everyone but a side hustle can often be a pathway to your future.
Establish a healthy morning routine. A great day begins the night before. Instead of scattered approach to the day, define a morning routine that sets you up for success.
Increase the percentage of money that you are saving and giving away. If you are at 10% for each, aim for 11%. Also if you have kids and haven’t started a college education savings plan, its better late than never.
Charisma, plainly stated, is the ability to draw people to you. And like other character traits, it can be developed. To make yourself the kind of person who attracts others, you need to personify these pointers:
1. Love life: People enjoy leaders who enjoy life. Think of the people you want to spend time with. How would you describe them? Grumpy? Bitter? Depressed? Of course not. They are celebrators, not complainers. They are passionate about life. If you want to attract people. You need to be like the people you enjoy being with.
2. One of the best things you can do for people-which also attracts them to you is to expect the best of them . If you appreciate others, encourage them, and help them reach their potential, they will love you for it.
3. Give them hope: Hope is the greatest of all possessions.
4. Share yourself: People love leaders who share themselves and their life journey. As you lead people, give yourself. Share wisdom, resources, and even special occasions.
When it comes to charisma, the bottom line is othermindedness. Leaders who think about others and their concerns before thinking of themselves exhibit charisma.
Experts spend a lot of time trying to figure out what makes people successful. They often look at people’s credentials, intelligence, education, and other factors. But more than anything else, passion makes the difference.
Nobody can be successful unless he loves his work.
There are four truth about passion:
1. Passion is the first step to achievement: Your desire determines your destiny.
2. Passion increases your willpower: There is no substitute for passion. It is fuel for the will. If you want something badly enough, you can find the willpower to achieve it.
3. Passion changes you: If you follow your passion, you can not help becoming a more dedicated, productive person.
4. Passion makes the impossible possible: A leader with great passion and few skills always outperforms a leader with great skills and no passion.
1. Be willing to bet on yourself. You may succeed if nobody else believes in you, but you will never succeed if you don’t believe in yourself.
2. Lead your life instead of accepting your life – making the right decisions and managing those decisions daily. The power of choice is the greatest power that a person possesses.
3. Love what you do and do what you love. Successful people – those who see and seize their dreams – love what they do and do what they love. They allow their passion and talent to guide them.
4. Don’t compare yourself or your dream to others – when you compare yourself with those superior, you feel inferior. When you compare yourself with those inferior, you feel superior. When you stop comparing yourself with others, you feel empowered. Success is doing that best you can with what you have wherever you start in life.
5. Believe in your vision for the future even when others don’t understand you. You are not an accident. You are here for a reason.
Cómo construir y mantener la confianza Entonces, ¿cómo “llenas el depósito”, mueves la aguja en tu medidor de confianza personal y mantienes un “tanque lleno”?
Generar confianza es una función de nuestra acción, y aquí hay cuatro formas en que puedes generar y mantener la confianza:
1. Sea fiel al carácter: diga la verdad, haga lo que dice que va a hacer (sea confiable), haga un trabajo de alta calidad y asegúrese de que sus acciones estén en línea con los valores de tu vida. Esta es la base de la confianza.
2. Vive la regla de oro: sé respetuoso con los demás, amable, considerado y muestra un interés genuino por los demás. Trata a los demás como te gustaría que te trataran a ti y observa cómo florece la confianza en esas relaciones.
3. Comunicate de manera efectiva: sea abierto al comunicar compromisos, demoras, expectativas, intenciones y motivos, y la claridad generará y mantendrá la confianza de manera inherente.
4. Obtenga y aplique el poder del conocimiento: cuando buscas un especialista médico, ¿buscas al médico que sabe más y tiene el nivel de habilidad más alto? Lo mismo es cierto contigo: los demás confiarán más en ti si saben que estás mejorando constantemente tu conjunto de habilidades y esforzándote por ser el mejor en lo que haces. Esfuércese por ser el mejor en lo que hace al obtener y aplicar constantemente nuevos conocimientos, y las personas tendrán una mayor confianza en tu conjunto de habilidades.
¡Practica estos cuatro principios de líderes altamente exitosos y observa cómo se llena tu medidor de confianza y tu reserva de confianza! Eso se está convirtiendo en lo mejor de ti.
Janitza Rivera Executive Business Coach, Speaker & TrainerKkoaching Business and Leadership