New Year & A Fresh Start

Take a look at your life and see what you would like to improve to make it even better.

Make a list of the big things you can do in the next year that will improve your life on different levels: work/business, health, relationships, interests and more.

Write down both the fun stuff and the boring but necessary stuff.

Then write down small goals for every big goal so the goal doesn’t become too overwhelming.

When you have reached a goal small or big take time to celebrate and be thankful.

I hope this coming year is full of celebrations because you have reached your small or big goals.

Happy New Year!

God bless,

Janitza

How I Connect With My Child Using The Love Languages

  1. Physical Touch: Since the day I found out I was pregnant my hands were all over my belly. I just couldn’t resist touching my belly, knowing that my baby was there with me 24/7. I did the physical touch throughout my pregnancy, however when I had her the story changed, it got worse but it is the best thing you can do to let your child know how much you lover her/him. I touch my daughter every single day, every single time I have the opportunity I touch her. I hug her as much as I can, I kiss her, I rub her back when I put her to sleep, I love rubbing her legs while I am feeding her, I rub her hair, her face, her hands and fingers. I pretty much let my baby know through the love of physical touch how much I lover her and how much she means to me. The best part for me is when I snuggle with her in bed at night.
    2. Words of Affirmation: It is very important for me to let my daughter know how much I love her. We as a family let her know throughout the day how much she is loved. I do make sure every time before I go to bed I say I love you. Affirming all of her efforts are going to help her in the future to always try and never give up. Every time when she rolls over, attempts to seat up or lay down I give her a positive affirmation. When she doesn’t get it the first time, it is ok, she has to try again until she succeeds. When a child make a mistake, acknowledging their good intentions, efforts and determination is very important.

    3. Quality Time: I bring my baby with me when I run errands, when I cook she is with me, when I do laundry and fold her clothes I do it with her and I make sure I talk to her while I am doing those thing. When the weather was nice I would take walks with her and have conversations with her. She may not be able to answer me back but she sure is listening. One of the things I enjoy the most is when we make silly faces and then we laugh together . Make sure you spend quality time with your loved ones.

    4. Gifts: Choosing small, inexpensive tokens or small homemade presents is just absolutely the best. I have started creating different small gifts for my daughter so I can give it to her when she is bigger, but i love all the small tokens I have received from friends and family members and I cant wait to let her know different stories about them. I am also creating a photo album from the day she was born to-date, there are so many good memories to share, I want her to know how she has changed our lives, i want her to feel important. I want her to know that in the future if she wants to do the same and share happiness this way she should.

10 Reasons why I Exercise

1. Reduce stress. Exercising has many physical benefits. Improving physical condition and fighting disease have long been established, and physicians always encourage staying physically active.

Exercise is also considered vital for maintaining mental fitness, and it can reduce stress.

When stress affects the brain, with its many nerve connections, the rest of the body feels the impact as well. Or, if your body feels better, so does your mind. Exercise and other physical activity produce endorphins — chemicals in the brain that act as natural painkillers — and also improve the ability to sleep, which in turn reduces stress.

2. Reduces Blood Pressure                                         Chronic hypertension is the number one form of heart disease. The causes of hypertension include the increased plaque in the arteries that builds up from consuming a high-fat diet. Exercise helps reduce your blood pressure, in part, by attacking the plaque in your arteries.

3. Keep Bones Strong
Another normal age-related change is the loss of bone mineral strength. Here again, the magic number of a 1 percent loss per year seems to be the considered wisdom of how fast our body’s bones get thinner and weaker.
You need to spend no less than an hour a week of increasingly strenuous weight-lifting until you reach your maximum potential.

4. Boost your Energy. Because your body is functioning more efficiently, you’ve got more oxygen to fuel your body’s cells. You also feel fewer aches and pains and have greater strength. As a result, you can go about your daily activities feeling less fatigued, stressed, and weary.

5. Improves Mood. It’s a well-kept secret that people who exercise regularly also have lower risk of depression. Our pill-popping culture tends to emphasize medical interventions for psychological disorders over behavioral treatments. Exercise is one of these behavioral treatments.

6. Lowers Anxiety
Related to exercise’s effects on mood are its effects on your levels of anxiety. As your levels of endorphins increase, your feelings of worry also start to diminish. When you exercise, you also refocus your attention from your daily problems to the workout itself. You can gain a fresh perspective on even the most preoccupying concerns in your life by taking an exercise break. When you return to these daily problems, you approach them with renewed energy and even some new ways to figure out solutions.

7. Feels like fun
If you find the kind of exercise that fits your personality and motivational needs, you can actually have a good time while your body does the work. Some people need to exercise in a group class because they enjoy the social opportunities it provides. Others prefer to have time to themselves away from the stress of work and family. Whatever your exercise style, once you get into a routine, you’ll find that the activity itself becomes rewarding. Once you get to that point, exercise enriches the quality of life.

8. Boosts Memory
The effects of exercise on many of your bodily systems ultimately pays off in improving your cognitive functioning. There are now volumes of studies on humans as well as lab animals showing that regular physical exercise helps your neurons stay in shape particularly in the memory areas of your brain. You don’t even have to exert yourself that much to experience this memory boost. Moderate walking can help your brain’s memory center. Memory also benefits from a general lowering of cortisol, the stress hormone, associated with the improved mood and anxiery levels you experience from your regular workouts.

9. Builds Intelligence
Along with memory, your intellectual skills benefit from regular physical activity. It also helps if you can build in some mental activity as well. As oxygen flows more freely to your brain, not only does your hippocampus benefit but so does the part of your brain involved in planning and reasoning. Mental activity, particularly involvement in exercises that require you to respond quickly, also boosts your intelligence and even your ability to carry out activities of daily living.

10. Improves Sex Life
Keeping your muscles active through use helps promote the demands placed on your endocrine glands to produce more hormones. With more muscle mass comes greater stimulation to produce androgens which help both men and women maintain their sexual functioning. You are also likely to feel more fit and be more fit, which in turn will benefit your interest in and ability to carry out sexual activity.

God Bless,

Janitza

Let your Teammates be who they are.

When you try to change someone, it means your inadvertently judging them. Did you know judging someone else say more about you than the person you’re judging? It means your aren’t accepting. Living life without judging others actually feels good. Give it a try.

I enjoy everyday more and more the talent of getting to know people and try to accept them for who they are. Every time I do that I learn and it helps me realize how good it feels when people accept me exactly for who I am.

Don’t forget to let your teammates know how much you appreciate them.

God bless,

Janitza