You are exactly where you need to be

The one thing that can really hold you back is feeling like you should be further along in life. With that feeling comes guilt,  anger, resentment,  regret,  and blame. You cannot powerfully manifest if you are living in the basement of your emotions. It may be true: You could be further along in your life. But the ultimate truth is: You are exactly where you need to be.  The mistake you have made cannot be erased. But your past is not your prison.  It is the necessary part of your journey that has made you wiser. Forgive it all so you can move on. As you do this, your life would begin to flow like a river. Everything you think you’ve lost , time, money, relationships,  etc…will be restored to you a hundredfold

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

Accept Changes With Grace

If you receive news that changes your plans or experience some kind of setback or delay, don’t react negatively. Don’t get frustrated or upset . The universe is watching how you respond to these changes because you are being set up for more abundance. The blessings that are about to flow into your life will come with another level of responsibility. When you gripe and complain, it shows that you are not ready, and it will take longer to receive your rewards. Negativity always slows the manifestation process. Instead accept the changes with grace . Rise to the challenge. You’ll never get more than you can handle. You are just being tested.

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

A Daily Reminder

One of the most powerful things you can do is be truthful about where you are and how you feel. Being unwilling to face the uncomfortable parts of your life will lead to stagnation.  If you are feeling stuck or beating your head against a wall, ask yourself: what am I avoiding or resisting? What situation am I hiding from? What am I sweeping under the rug? What issues from my past am I unwilling to face? It takes courage to unmask the hidden parts of your soul. It takes faith to lay bare the broken pieces of your heart, but liberation is the reward for exposing the dark, covered parts of your life. Be brave enough to be honest with yourself.  Lies will stunt your growth.  The truth is the only thing that has the power to set you free.

Always Do Your Best

Under any circumstances,  always do your best. No more and no less. But keep in mind that your best is never going to be the same from one moment to the next. Everything is alive and changing all the time. So your best sometimes will be high quality,  and other times it will not be as good.

Doing your best,  you are going to live your life intensely.  You are going to be productive,  you are going to be good to yourself,  because you will be giving yourself to your family,  to your community,  to everything. But it is the action that is going to make you feel intensely happy. When you always do your best,  you take action. Doing your best is taking the action because you love it. Not because you are expecting a reward.

When you do your best you learn to accept yourself. But you have to be aware and learn from your mistakes. Learning from your mistakes means you practice, look honestly at the results and keep practicing.

You do your best because your best all the time makes you so happy.

Whatever life takes you away from you,  let it go. When you surrender and let go of the last, you allow yourself to be fully alive in the moment. Letting go of the past means you can enjoy the dream that is happening right now.

You were born with the right to be happy. You were born with the right to love, to enjoy and to share your love. Don’t resist life passing through you.

We so not need to know or prove anything.  Just to be , to take a risk and enjoy your life, is all that matters.  Say No when you want to say No and Yes when you want to say Yes. You have the right to be you.

☆The Four Agreements.

Aprende Del Año Pasado.

Tal ves has escuchado el viejo dicho “la experiencia es la mejor maestra”. Lo que tal vez no sepas es que es mentira. Si la experiencia fuera la mejor maestra , cada año de tu vida te haria mejor. Pero la sabiduría no siempre viene con la edad. Algunas veces la esad llega sola.

Asi que cual es la mejor maestra? La experiencia evaluada. Cuando te tomas el tiempo para participar en el pensamiento reflexivo , buscas màs, observas màs, analizas màs, entiendes màs, aprendes màs y creces màs. Y cuando haces cambios de crecimiento positivo basados en la experiencia evaluada, tu vida completa pasa a un nuevo nivel.
Si no estás dispuesto a aprender del año pasado y planear tu mejor año entonces tienes que aceptar este año 2023 tal y como va a ser, y eso puede desilucionarte.

👉No te conformes.

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

Tu Año Mas Exitoso

Quieres que este año sea mejor que el año pasado? Estoy super segura que la respuesta es sì. Pero, hay algo que puedes hacer para conseguirlo? O solamente puedes aceptar lo que sea que traiga este año?

Es màs, como puedes juzgar el año pasado? Y còmo vas a juzgar este de ahora? Un dueño de negocio puede ver tu hoja de balance y flujo de caja para, al menos, poder ver el estado de la compañia. Tu, què deberias buscar? Tu vida es mas que tu estado financiero.

Este año puede ser mejor, pero requiere que sea màs intencional.

Una gran vida no sólo sucede en el vacio. Una vida de éxito, de satisfacción, que tiene sentido y significado, sólo es posible cuando vives de una forma intencional. Buenas intenciones te pueden hacer sentir bien, pero solo la intencionalidad puede hacer una buena vida.

Para ser una persona intencional este año tienes que asesorar lo que hicistes el año pasado.

Te puedo ayudar a evaluar lo que funcionò, y lo que no funcionò. Y te explicare como averiguar lo que necesitas mejorar, que añadir y que quitar de tu vida. Vas a terminar con un plan para el mejor año de tu vida. Solo me tienes que dejar saber. ♡

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

Start Small But BELIEVE Big

I hope you understand that we can’t get anywhere in life without taking that first small step. Sometimes the step is HARD; other times it’s easy. But no matter what you have to do it if you want to achieve big things.

You never know when something small that you do for others is going to expand into something big.

The thing here is that you need to start where you are. Opportunity is always where you are. Be willing to start by giving of yourself.

Start with your one thing. I believe everybody has one thing they do better than anything else. When you start on your one thing it will lead you to where you want to be.

Start watching your words. Words kill, words give life; they are either poison or fruit, you choose. What we say to ourselves either encourages us or discourages us. The words we need to embrace are positive, words such as, we, can, will, and yes. What do we need to eliminate? Me, can’t, won’t and no. Words have power. What kind of words do you use in your mind as you talk to yourself, out loud as you speak with others, and in your writing? Are they positive and encouraging? Do they encourage you to embrace a bigger vision? Or are they holding you back? Are they preventing you from doing small things that can ultimately make a big difference? Don’t tell yourself that what you can do doesn’t matter. It does.

Start by making small changes. Change can be difficult, but it becomes easier when you do it a little at a time. Try to change 5% a day by asking yourself a question, If I were 5 % more responsible today, what would I be able to do? This kind of thinking help us to embrace incremental change.

Believe big. If you don’t believe you can do something, guess what? You won’t. No matter how talented you are, how many opportunities you receive or how many resources you have at your fingertips. YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE .

🤚 Do you believe in yourself? Your belief will drive your behavior. You will never be more than how you see yourself. 🤚

God Bless,

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

People Quit People, Not Companies

How many have ever quit their job because of a bad leader or a bad relationship at work?


As a leader, we’d like to think that when people leave , it has little to do with us. But the reality is that we are often the reason. People usually quit their leaders. The “Company” doesn’t do anything negative to them. People do.

What kind of people do employees quit?

  1. People quit people who devalue them. It is impossible to add value to someone we devalue!. If we do not respect someone, we can’t treat them with respect. When leaders devalue their people they start to manipulate them.
  2. People quit people who are untrustworthy. Have you ever worked with people you couldn’t trust? It’s a terrible experience. Nobody likes to work with someone that they can’t rely on.
  3. People quit people who are incompetent. When leaders are incompetent, they become a distraction to the team. They waste people’s energy. They prevent people from keeping the main thing, the main thing.
  4. People quit people who are insecure. If the leader values people, possesses integrity, and displays competence, then people will be content to follow, right? No, even if leaders posses those three qualities, there still one characteristic that will drive people away from them. INSECURITY. Some insecure leaders are easy to spot. Their desire for power, position and recognition comes out in an obvious display of fear, suspicion, distrust or jealousy.

No matter how good of a leader you are, you will ocacionally lose people. That’s simply a part of leadership. However, you can do things to make yourself the kind of leader that other people wants to follow.

🤚 Contact me and I can help.

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach

How Do You Know A Relationship Is Broken and How Can You Save It?

How can you tell a relationship has become broken? These are the most common signs:

1. It’s hard to have an honest conversation. When relationships are in trouble, it becomes difficult to have a normal, honest conversation.

2. There is a lack of trust. When relationships begin to break down , suspicion creeps in.

3. There’s lack of passion to continue the relationship. Eventually the other person stops putting in any effort to build back the relationship or make it work.

When you see these signs you should try to repair the relationship.

1. Initiate fixing the relationship with them.

2. Give them the benefit of the doubt.

3. Be willing to walk the second mile.

4. Speak well of them afterward.

A lot of relationships are worth saving, but many can’t be saved. We have to be realistic about the relationship and do our best, but sometimes we have to accept that it can’t be saved. We have to learn to say to ourselves, It’s OK. I don’t need to keep this close relationship with this person anymore. Still value the person and let them go.

Janitza Rivera

Executive Business Coach