It was clear to me that we can’t give our children what we do not have. Where we are on our journey of living and loving ❤ with our whole hearts is a much stronger indicator of parenting success than anything we can learn from how to books. Could you agree with me?
I start this blog with that strong statement because we as human beings have to do some work on us before so we can give to our children what we have.
We are not perfect by any means, but it is important that we do some homework if we want to change this world. We need a world with more opportunities to give 💘 love, compassion 🙏 and understanding.
I will encourage you if you have kids to do this if you want to change this world to a better place because our children are the hope. However I still encourage you to do the same if you don’t have children because your help is needed. We need to break so many bad cycles that is not even funny 😐.
I encourage you to do some soul searching and start living the life you want to live instead of living the life you were “supposed” to live.
You need to start loving yourself for who you are and embrace who you really are.
We all have gone through some hard experiences in our lives that is time to deal with them. Let them go and forgive yourself. You will live a pretty amazing life if you do so. Also if you have children you will be able to give your kids what you have, which I hope is love, understanding and compassion.
I encourage you to learn to live your life how you feel rather than thinking what other people think of you. This work may be messy, may take some time but you need to fight those struggles and make sure you come successful on the other side.
You need to learn who to set boundaries with, and begin to let go of your need to please , perform and be perfect.
Own your story and love yourself the way you are, embrace who you are and you will realize that this is one of the bravest things that you would ever do.
Find the courage to live and love with your whole hearts. Teach your kids to love themselves for exactly who they are and let’s start creating a better world for our next generation. They need us. We need to be better people and be role models and not feed garbage to our kids, our future.
“Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy- the experience that makes us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.”
God Bless,
Jani
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